Shots fired. Sides taken. The war has begun.
The first casualties of this lifelong mêlée have taken their toll.
My enemy: Time. Age. Myself.
I saw my youth slowly fade from my reflection this weekend. Although, if I had been looking closer I would have seen it long ago, this feeling of getting old creeping up from nowhere and settling in my bones. It began simply, yet suddenly. I felt strangely uneasy all last week physically and mentally; I felt lost, unsharpened, and out of focus. Yet, I carried on in my normal way; a way I’ve traveled many times before, yet this time I found myself in foreign territory. By Friday I was sick unlike I have ever been before. Not virus sick, but “body not right” sick. My whole body ached, massive headaches plagued me, and tightness in my chest made every breath painful. These warning shots would playfully come and go at their own discretion. I felt like shit. Then the tremors began.
Eyelid tremors. They have an unearthly appetite for concentration.
I call them “tremors,” as it sounds kind of psycho to have a “twitch,” or worse, a “spasm.” Nobody likes spasms. “Tremors” just sounds cooler. I must say their annoyance factor defies all reason! Remember someone constantly flicking your ear? Or holding you down and tapping on your forehead? Something perhaps a little painful and massively annoying? yeah…multiply that by a billion. It’s like all the caffeine I had ever drank went directly to my eyelid and it has taken it upon itself to throw a dance party in my honor. And as if I wasn’t going crazy before, this was surely putting me on the fast track to owning my own little white coat wherein I get to hug myself all day long. Sadly, I deserve every second of it.
Myokymia is, according to online doctors, “a common condition where a few of the muscle fibers of the upper — or more commonly the lower — eyelid contract irregularly. Myokymia is closely associated with stress, fatigue, lack of sleep, and too much caffeine.
Online doctors say that myokymia is associated with “brainstem neoplasms,” which sounds even cooler than “tremors.” “Brainstem neoplasms” is bound to get people at the office to pay attention when I talk about my problem. But then, the treatment for that includes a “lumbar puncture with an examination of cerebrospinal fluid,” so maybe it’s best not to milk this neoplasm idea too far. Especially for a stupid eyelid twitch.
So, I guess it’s time for a change.
As some of you know, ever since school ended in May, I’ve been obsessed with working my ass off, staying up till the wee hours, and running myself into the ground using caffeine as a crutch. On top of that, my eating habits are worse than ever. In these last few months, I feel my life has been set into overdrive with so many changes and so many things going on. But, I was sure I had a handle on it, I always had before. It’s only recently that I’ve started feeling overwhelmed and tired, but I thought I could just battle through it. It’s strange; I’ve always had the will, energy, and gumption to handle all the going-on’s in my life. It’s been the one thing I’ve come to always count on. But, there is always the first to die in war. So, whether I want to admit it to myself or not, my body seems fed up with the way I’m living. It has fired this first shot, warning me of things to come if I don’t make some changes.
So, it’s with a heartfelt sigh, I say au revoir to coffee and its hitchhiker friend caffeine. Our short romance, I will treasure always. And along with that, getting to sleep before 1am might be on the agenda as well. Buying that elusive cookbook now seems like a desperate act. Also, a massage seems quite overdue; I’m still not used to sitting for nine to ten hours at a time, as a result, my back feels crooked and wrong.
And so, now begins a new dean.
Current mood: *twitch*
Currently listening: Chet Baker Sings by Chet Baker
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Bran muffins have more sugar than most other muffins! — said the muffin man excitedly. As for grapefruit juice..pewwy! I stick to my orange-peach-mango juice and the occasional bloody mary. Also, I’ve always taken vitamins – I think it’s the only reason I’m still alive.
Don’t get caught up into our society’s view upon aging–being young sucks, remember those days? When you are young no one takes you seriously, you are underpaid, not respected, and taken advantage of. You have very good looks and age could only accentuate those features for you!
Also, think of all the school stress you (probably) endured throughout the years. The cram sessions. The unexpected difficulty of a “crip course”. The pretentious teachers and competitive classmates. You didn’t put up with all of that to be miserable now! You are where you wanted to be, (I hope), and you don’t need to kill yourself to succeed further. Don’t become the statistic.
Good for you in trying to change. How did you give up the coffee so easily? Did you replace it with tea?
I’ve always felt you should never take anything too seriously, most of all yourself. Underpaid, yes. Not respected, well thats not a problem reserved for the youth. And personally I kind of like being taken advantage of. :] And opinions aside, I doubt my looks are accented when I become a hunchback with one eye twitching like a chihuahua on amphetamines.
Ahhh, the beauty of school. I don’t remember ever being stressed by schoolwork. I loved practically all the classes I took in college, my cram sessions were always crammed full of laughter and the occasional pillow fight, I learned quickly to read the teachers as so not to engage in the pretentious ones, and when it came to art and design — I was the competitive one. All in all, I have been a pretty mellow guy most of my life.
There is an adjustment once you leave school behind, where once I knew exactly how hard to work, what my professors expected of me, and had a concrete timeline ending with a specific goal. Now, I’m drifting in this eternal unknown of the real world. And it’s scary out here; it’s not safe and comfortable. But it’s also amazing to be full of wonder and endless possibilities again. It’s similar to the feeling I had when I left the security of my parents house to live on my own for the first time. The stakes are higher, but so is the pot. And I’m ready to sit down with the big boys and play my hand. I’m just having a tricky time to getting comfortable in my seat.
Coffee is a new affair of mine. Our involvement began this past summer over breakfast with blueberry pancakes. So, I’m going cold turkey with the caffeine. I managed to get though today unscathed without a sip. Lets see if I survive the week.
last spring i went thru the same, only a little different…eyes permanently stuck open, yet would begin to flicker, the flickering turned into “tremors” and eventually moved from my eyes to my left cheek and upper lip. only problem, sleep was not a possibility. my body was quite used to being in a state of no sleep with a coffee IV…only a quick two hour nap was accessible. when my vacation’s shadow jumped in front of me, it shocked my frozen habits into relaxation…and i slept. i continue to battle with my addiction to working, but now my body refuses to wake up without at least six hours of sleep. good luck. — sounds like an AA confession:)
cheek and upper lip spasms??? Okay, you’ve officially freaked me out.
Aging is better left to the youth. 😀
Fuck decaf.